‘Pink’ – a must watch movie!

‘Pink’ is just not merely a movie, but it is a reflection of modern thinking as to how some people disrespect the feelings and emotions of a woman. This movie is an attempt to send out a strong signal to society and that people should be sensitive to the feelings of feminine.

The movie takes you straight into the story of three girls from Delhi, gradually unfolding the crisis they are undergoing due to molestation in a hotel resort just a day before. They try to appeal for justice in court and movie tries to bring about the emotions and humiliation a girl goes through during the trial process.

‘Pink’ makes you rethink the mindset of the society where men have the freedom to do whatever they feel like drinking and partying; but how people start questioning the character of a woman when this same thing is applied to her! This movie makes a bold statement to explain that if somebody says “No”, it means “No” – which itself is explanatory enough; be it for anybody!

It is a great movie based on the injustice and mindset of society towards the sensitive issues. The movie has great satirical remarks and punches that would shake up your thoughts and might help understand the gravity of situation.

Be an effective leader and not a boss!

Do unto others as you would like others to do unto you!

When you are being bossed around, ever wondered if you would have been in their shoes how would you have handle the same situation? This is the question that often comes to my mind and I like to read about experiences of people and learn from them. I am not interested to hold a management degree and be a boss in long run, rather would like to grow as technical lead. This post is about my experiences of being an effective leader.

Easy to be a boss than a leader! To be an effective leader, we should always lead by example. We should always try pushing the team forward but also understand the challenges at ground zero and constantly provide feedback and encouragement to help them grow.

As a leader it is very important to provide a conducive environment for anyone on my team to bring their problems/challenges upfront and lets discuss them. We might not always reach consensus but provide amicable solution to the problem. My responsibility as a leader holds true to drive not just my goals forward but also help grow every individual and again remember to lead by example. That’s most important sign of a good leader. Please do not just keep praising yourself all the time and hence spread negative vibes, instead lead your group in right direction.

Let’s be a good example and learn to be an effective leader, because nobody could replace a good leader. It is easy to find bosses all around but effective leaders are just a few! We should remember, people like to be a dictator and boss, and therefore they are easy to be replaced. Be an effective leader!

Learn to say thank you!

I was reading through a wonderful experience on LinkedIn here that made me write this post and share my experience. Please go through the linked article. This is about an experience of a person whom his mother taught to write thank you notes!

A small gesture of thank you can really bring a smile and encouragement to others. It goes without saying when you acknowledge the work done, it makes you feel better as well. I see so many people who help you out on your way to find road-directions or metro routes but they do not care to stop a while and say ‘thank you’ with a smile.

Be at work or staying at hotel and somebody serving you, please stop for a while and say thank you! It really might not be big deal today but a small habit can really bring a change.

Farewell 2015!

With each passing year you gain experience and learning. Year 2015 had been an amazing year to me, as it was a dream come true in so many aspects. Mesmerizing Maid of the Mist at Niagara Falls, Amazing view from Empire State Building, Brooklyn heights and wonderful time spent back here. Everything looks so afresh!

From #NamasteObama back in Jan to #Farewell2015 I just didn’t realised how addicted I am getting to social media. I got more interested in politics and following Modi and Kejriwal like anything. With the hopes of Acche Din getting back we started with 2015 and ending up with Swatchh Bharat, it gives great feeling to see though we have many ongoing issues but the hope is still with trending #IPledgeToMakeDelhiSafe.

At the verge of saying farewell to 2015, and welcoming new year with fresh hopes and aspirations (and 2015 resolutions we didn’t met 😛 ), I am so thankful to all people who were with me throughout!

The saying goes like, things you do on 1st Jan remains so for the rest of the year. And, we all do believe in it…isn’t it? So, do well and wishing you all a very Happy New Year 2016 🙂